Domestic Violence in our society

Domestic Violence?

Domestic violence is the irrational and uncanny behavior of a couple against each other. And for the record domestic violence is not limited only towards female it has a lot of male victims as well but I can't deny the fact that the number of female victims is more than male.

How domestic violence infiltrates in a family/couple?

The concept is not contemporary rather it is considered uncanny because in my opinion domestic violence is generated when a couple has got zero understanding among them and of course when you put two contradicting subjects together it is unlikely to have chemistry.

In simple words the blame goes towards the parents because egoistic decisions, not asking for the will of the boy and girl, not guiding them properly, personal benefits all these are the initials of domestic violence all these reasons initiate violence.

And it's not only limited to the parenting side either no doubt the couple is to be blamed as well because sometimes the male is having a pessimistic behavior and sometimes it's the female.

How can we control domestic violence?

Domestic violence is like a hidden pandemic that has been a part of our life since the beginning of this world it's never easy to control something like that but at least what we can do it to control it's ratio by spreading awareness.

Parents making the right decision for their children, Not considering love marriages as a sin, Teaching your son/daughter how be a good partner, Building chemistry, and the most important Law and Order.

Law & Order?

Domestic Violence is a subject not in the state of the art, It has been a major matter since a long time and there is law regarding the subject, The point is it's implantation if the law and order is implemented accordingly and justice is severed as it should be then there will be a mighty decrease in the ratio of domestic violence unfortunately justice is never served which is why domestic violence or any other violence catches hike day by day.

Islamic Point of view.

In Islam it has been told clearly that each and every human being has their rights and deserves respect gender based violence domestic violence has no room of existence in Islam.

Prophet Muhammad (SAWW) advised to treat your women with respect in his final address.

We need to stand for our rights women rights getting violated is loss of humanity we need to spread awareness among the people that women are human as well and we've to teach the people the proper and Islamic way of life which has justice and equality.

May Allah SWT protects the respect and dignity of every female and every household.

Hamza Khan Durrani.